young vs mature
Like one of the other commentators, when I was young (teens and 20s) I usually dated older girls. One of the most memorable from those years was when I was 25 and had an affair with a woman in her mid-40s. I learned so much from the experience about how to treat a woman in and out of the bedroom, and it helped me immeasurably to grow into the gentleman that I have become.
Once I hit my 30s though, I found myself dating younger and younger women, not that I was looking for them particularly, it just seemed that they were the ones most available and interested in the same things that I was. I married a woman several years younger than I and for many years the relationship worked. But as she grew older, she became more set in her ways. The sexy silken lingerie was replaced by mundane cotton Grannie pants and bras and our relationship went downhill from there.
Once I was back on the market, I dated a few women near my age 45-50 but never really struck sparks. They seemed like my ex to be more interested in cultivating grandchildren than addressing my needs for romance and intimacy. As a result I found myself gravitating back toward younger women, 25-40, and have found great happiness.
The last young woman I had an affair with was less than half my age when I first met her. She was young and beautiful and full of spirit and life. Of course she had an acknowledged “thing” for older men and I was more than willing to let her take advantage. Because of my professional standing we were able to travel and enjoy what life brought to us. She helped me remain young-at-heart and I helped teach her much about life and herself.
I was never with her (or any of my younger girlfriends for that matter) just to be with a hot young chick. I’m sure that there are many older men who do. My interest is always in the person and what she can bring to the relationship. I will admit that young women these days are much more open and accepting of their sexuality and are much more practiced at pleasing and being pleased.
With the right young woman there is very little I would not try (although I have pretty much tried everything at least once) and her youth and enthusiasm helps make those explorations delightful.
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